Some parents are not sure whether they can adequately support their son during his seminary training.

This is another common anxiety.  In many other moments in your son’s life you have felt ready to offer sound advice from your own past experiences.  However, because a vocation to the priesthood is such a unique call, you may feel unqualified to offer helpful advice.  Your son understands this and does not expect you to be all-knowing and ever-present with advice!  One helpful question you can ask your son is, “What is the most important thing I can do to assist and support you?”  This simple question will mean a great deal to your son.  Further, it is a sign of your unconditional love as a parent.

Another helpful question is, “Is your discernment of a vocation something that you’d like me to keep confidential at the moment?” This will assure your son that you respect the “pace” of his discernment and will guard its public disclosure until he is ready.

Regarding finances, the majority of the expenses associated with your son's education while he is enrolled in seminary will be assumed by the Diocese of Sioux City.  If a seminarian is not covered under his parent's health insurance, the Diocese will provide a health insurance plan.  If you have any further questions regarding this please contact Fr. Brad Pelzel, Vocation Director for the Diocese of Sioux City at This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it or (712) 233-7523.